Cloth wipes solutions and washing with reusable nappies?

Im new to the whole cloth nappy thing but I am loving it and now want to try cloth wipes and making my own solution for my little man who has sensitive skin. Firstly, whats a good solution to make up and I've been getting all sorts of advice about washing the used wipes. I've been told to just put them in the wash with my reusable nappies but then I've been told that any solutions containing any type of 'oils' shouldn't be washed in the same wash as the cloth nappies (I have bumgenius & tot bots easyfits fluffle) and it will stuff up my washing machine. Can anyone enlighten me please??? ALSO, does anyone know of any good pre-made solutions I can buy???