Trying to get my friend to go out with me. I gave her roses and a bear + card for V Day?

I doubt that this Max guy is really her husband. I'm around that age, and I do the same things, saying one is my husband and that we have kids. But, I think you just have to be careful not to ruin your friendship. I would just give her little hints that you like her, similar to the Valentines Day presents.