Why is it considered wrong for men to gawk at women...?

...but okay for women to do the opposite? Last summer, I got criticized by a few female for checking out the eye candy during the Olympics (especially from Eastern Europe.) I got watching them perform. I'm only human after all. Plus, these women knew men were checking them out. After all, many modeled alongside. I almost developed priapism watching Blanka Vlasic from Croatia performed. These same women who ridiculed me for even being discreet expressed how hot Michael Phelps made them in his swimming trunks. Talk about a double-standard! Last time I ate at Hooter's (four years ago) the waitress got upset because I peered at her. What she expect working at a sports bar wearing a tanktop and runner's shorts? If you don't like guys viewing your merchandise, don't leave it on display. Why is that considered ual harment, but if a woman does the same it's no big deal? Ladies, you can't tell me you wouldn't stare if you saw Brad Pitt, Vin Diesel, or whomever wearing a speedo. Why are women permitted to ogle, but not men? Why are men considered pigs when they visit topless bars and brothels, but nobody harps on women for attending Chippendale's shows and hiring male escorts?